Beyond the notes: Singing, sharing and skills for the future

When people think about choir, they usually picture rehearsals, concerts and learning songs … but the recent residential at Dunfield House last weekend which I volunteered at for Singing Community of Choirs was about so much more than that. Yes, there was plenty of singing, but what really stood out were the life skills the children developed along the way, skills that will help them far beyond school and into future careers.
 
From the moment we arrived, everyone was encouraged to be more independent. Mealtimes, for example, weren’t just about eating. Pupils collected their own meals, made choices about what they wanted for lunch and took responsibility for clearing up afterwards. These might seem like small tasks, but they build organisation, decision-making and personal responsibility - all essential skills in any workplace.
 
For many, it was also a chance to experience a bit of independence away from home. Making their own beds, keeping rooms tidy and managing their belongings gave them a real sense of ownership. By the end of the trip, even those who were unsure at the beginning were much more confident. Learning to manage yourself is a huge part of growing up and something employers value highly.
 
We also made sure there was plenty of time for fun, but even that came with its own set of skills. Activities like the quiz, bingo, and scavenger hunt encouraged teamwork, communication and problem-solving. Whether they were working out answers together or racing to complete challenges, the pupils had to listen to each other, share ideas and cooperate … just like they would in a team at work.
 
Our older choir members really stood out during the residential. They took on informal leadership roles, helping to look after the younger pupils, guiding them through routines and making sure everyone felt included. These moments showed maturity, empathy and leadership - qualities that are incredibly important in careers where teamwork and responsibility matter.
 
One of the biggest highlights for many was running the tuck shop. Everyone took turns being in charge, which meant handling money, organising stock and working together to keep things running smoothly. It was a fun activity, but it also introduced key skills like customer service, teamwork and basic financial awareness - skills that link directly to real-world jobs.
 
At the end of the residential came the final challenge: packing up, with no parent help! It was a great test of independence and organisation. Somehow, everything was packed, rooms were checked and we were ready to go. It really showed how much the pupils had grown in confidence over such a short time.
 
While the music is always at the heart of choir, this residential showed that being part of it helps develop so much more. Independence, teamwork, leadership, communication and responsibility are all skills that will support the children in whatever paths they choose in the future.
 
It was a fantastic few days, not just for the singing, but for the growth, confidence and life skills we saw in every single pupil.

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